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Positive Parenting

During the courses we always encourage the parents that they can parent in a positive way. That it is hard at first but over time it becomes second nature. Just like anything we do in life that is new at the beginning it requires a lot of effort to change.…

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My Own Energy Levels

To be the best parent we can be we need to be conscious of our own energy levels.   I know myself that if I don’t get some time alone to play a video game, read a comic or just having a nap it becomes very difficult for me to parent…

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Mumbo Jumbo

An organization called “Heartmath” in America is the leading researchers in the field of Neuro Cardiac Research. Basically it means that they study the heart and have found a network of connections there very similar to in the brain. Not only have they found out about these new networks but…

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Motivating Factors

The call to action can take many forms. For some it can be something small while for others it can be something drastic. I’ve heard that two things motivate people. They are inspiration or desperation. As a parent we find that we can experience many of these moments. We may…

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Learning

Kids can do funny things. Throwing shoes off the top floor of the mall, climbing up the slide or randomly sitting in water show how it can be really frustrating or embarrassing for a parent, but these mini experiments are how a child learns about cause and effect, gravity, velocity…

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It’s not too hard

I remember I used to think parenting in a positive way was hard. But I don’t think that’s the case anymore. I think there are even harder things to manage than kids. Bills are harder. They definitely don’t give us hugs or make us feel loved. They might annoy us…

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Growing up is no excuse

My phone went missing one night. For some reason I already knew what happened to it. I asked Jackie who admitted she hid it away because I spend more time on my phone than with them. My darling joked that they should just handle it but then I began thinking.…

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Greetings and Goodbyes

We teach this strategy as a part of the courses, and I think my first Newsletter story may have covered the same topic over a year ago but I suppose it’s great to revisit this strategy during this time of the year when we will be seeing our family as…

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